INCELS

 

NOTE : For the purposes of this post I will define an Incel as "a man who wants to have sex, but hasn't done so in the last year". Incels are simply the inevitable end product of a society that has moved away from traditional marriage. Women are increasingly choosing to have sex with the top 10-20% of men, meaning that men at the bottom get left out. The Number of Sexless Men Has Tripled in 10 Years - YouTube

"When debating gender issues, an opponent may call you a misogynist or an Incel. This is often not because you are a misogynist or an Incel but because they lack the desire or skills to debate rationally & respectfully so they turn to insults & irrational accusations". Phil Mitchell: Male abuse specialist.

INCEL AS AN INSULT

This is basically just an Ad hominem attack, if your opponent could argue against your point with facts and logic they would do it. A mans sexual history has absolutely no relevance to the validity of an argument. Ironically this slur is constantly used by the same feminists and white knights who say you shouldn't judge a woman by her sexual history. 

Implying that a man's worth is determined by his ability to have sex with lots of women is about as "patriarchal" as you can get.

MANY MEN ARE ONLY A BREAKUP AWAY FROM BEING AN INCEL THEMSELVES

Or a year away from their partner suddenly giving them the "not tonight I have a headache" excuse night after night. Which makes is a little stupid using it as an insult to other men.

INCEL MEANS JUST THAT INVOLUNTARY 

If women reject a man because he's ugly, it's obviously something he has no control over. Mocking a man because of this is on par with mocking someone for being physically disabled. The popularity of Incel as a throwaway insult is the biggest indicator that people don't care for the average man or his problems. He's invisible, and is dismissed as low status rather than afforded actual compassion. 

By contrast it's easy to find countless stories in the media of women who complain that they can't find a "good man". The 30-something women who have NEVER had a boyfriend - and they all blame modern dating culture | Daily Mail Online Typically they will blame men for not measuring up rather than their own life choices such as prioritising their careers, dating players/bad boys or getting fat. Imagine the comments section if this was 3 young men who couldn't get a girlfriend.  

Women often pursue some of the most vile men in society, yet get little to no backlash for doing so. Incel hardly reflects on an individual man's "quality". 

THE MAJORITY OF MEN IN THE MANOSPHERE / RED PILL COMMUNITY ARE NOT INCELS 

Most men in the online forums I have been part of since the start of 2017 are usually married men that have been screwed over in divorces. I was blindsided by the sudden breakup of a 5 year relationship. There are even former pickup artists who have burned out. These forums often have strict rules against "Incel language" and will frequently ban people who promote any kind of violence against women.

Incels who comply are usually advised on improving their social and dating skills or failing that, helping them to divert their anger and frustration away from women and living the best life possible.

Associating the manosphere with a tiny minority of Incels who do advocate violence against women on sites like 4chan is another strategy used by feminists and white knights who can't argue with logic and reason.  

HAVING A LARGE NUMBER OF SEXLESS YOUNG MEN IS VERY BAD FOR SOCIETY. 

Having Regular Sex Is Important To Society - Alpha Male 2.0 (alphamale20.com) If you cared about society you would care about helping Incels. These men have no incentive to participate in society or improve their lives. They don't need to work overtime on Saturday morning to pay the mortgage or buy stuff for the kids when they still live at home with their parents. This is an economic disaster. These men are perfect candidates to join extreme groups like the far right to vent their anger and frustration.  The Coming Far Right Backlash - YouTube

WOMEN ACTIVELY OPPOSE THE VERY THINGS THAT WOULD HELP INCELS . 

I'm not a tradcon right wing conservative, society will not go back to how it was in 1950 where most people went church and got married before the age of 25. Lets be realistic....

Helping young men improve their social and dating skills. This is just obvious, however many of the websites are quarantined (Red pill reddit) or outright banned completely under the deliberately vague banner of misogyny. It's perfectly fine to teach women how to exploit men for money, hide their sexual pasts or whore themselves out on only fans. Men who just want to improve their dating skills have to find hidden forums to do so. Having sex just a few times a year would be sufficient to keep a lot of men off actual hate sites on 4chan. No One Would Have Died If Elliot Rodger had learned Game 

Fully legal and regulated prostitution. Some men are beyond hope (see photo of Incel murderer Jake Davidson) where all the dating tips in the world won't help. Again giving men like this that option would probably divert most of them away from hate filled 4chan sites. Yet I don't see feminists campaigning for legal prostitution, in fact quiet the opposite where men are actively shamed for using prostitutes. The same goes for sex dolls.

MGTOW Teaches men to live their best lives without women. Again women shame men who are literally "going their own way". A View From Above - YouTube

Foreign brides Again women will often shame a middle age man who comes back to the Uk with a young woman from SE Asia. Yet you don't see men shaming fat middle age women for bringing home a toy boy from Gambia.

WOMEN PROPOSE NO SOLUTION . 

Women may think a particular man is an unattractive loser, no problem, her life her opinion. But she doesn't seem to want that same man to learn dating skills, use legal prostitution, go MGTOW or even get married abroad. I'm at a loss to what women propose. This has some sinister implications for the female thought process.

WOMEN'S "ADVICE" HAS CREATED A LOT OF THE MONSTER THEY NOW HATE. 

Men are constantly bombarded with the message that women want a nice, caring, loyal, unthreatening, emotionally open boyfriend on the feminist path. Only to spend their lives in soul crushing celibacy while watching the same women practically throw themselves at players, badboys and keep going back to their abusive exes. When men call women out on this their default response is to shame men for "feeling entitled to sex" or "being nice to me doesn't entitle you to my body". SEE FRIENDZONE Hardly a surprise when some men explode in anger and frustration.

Further reading Confessions of a Reformed InCel | M3 (wordpress.com)