"When you know, you know"
Part of what keeps me in the manosphere / red pill community is the frequency of seeing things I read online play out in real life. One example of this is looking at other people's relationships and social media accounts, seeing the signs, and then watching them fail almost as regularly as clockwork.
The following is a list of indicators that a relationship is going to fail. Note that fail does not mean complete failure as in divorce / separation but could manifest itself in other ways such as cheating, dead bedroom, drama or an unhappy situation that lingers for years. See Marriage The Men's Dictionary: MARRIAGE (the-mens-dictionary.blogspot.com)
She earns more money than him or could do in the future. Women are biologically hardwired to "marry up", outearning her partner goes against this and is one of the biggest factors in divorce. Why Divorce Rate is Higher for Female Breadwinners (sflg.com)
She's with a man who is completely different to the men she dated in her 20s. She used to date arrogant bodybuilders and nightclub doormen but now she's with a placid, skinny accountant from a "nice" family. She's with him by necessity and not choice as she couldn't get the men she was genuinely attracted by to commit long term.
She's had lots of sexual partners. If he's the 50th man she's been with there's only a 2% chance that he's the best she's had.
He's had lots of sexual partners. Although it applies to a much smaller percentage of men. A former "player" who's accustomed to sexual variety is extremely unlikely to stay faithful to one woman for the rest of his life.
She has a history of dating players and "bad boys". She's secretly addicted to the emotional rollercoaster ride these men provide. If she's not getting it from Mr Stable nice guy these bad men are only a Tinder swipe away.
Negative body language. He's frequently leaning into her and she's pulling away. (see picture).
He's excessively praising her on social media. Telling the world how lucky he is to have her. Classic beta behaviour.
Date nights, especially if posted by him. He's trying to rekindle a dead bedroom situation which is largely ineffective.
Relationship status changes. From "In a relationship" to "it's complicated" and back again.
He's largely absent from her social media posts. It's all her kids, pets and girls' nights out.
She excessively praises his beta qualities. Such as how good a "provider" he is. Overcompensating for her lack of genuine desire for him.
He's decayed, physically, emotionally or financially. Put on weight, mental illness or lost his job. Women are secretly repulsed by male weakness because in prehistoric times it jeopardised their chances of survival.
Her friends are divorcing or cheating on their partners. Birds of a feather flock together.
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