BETAIZATION

 "Women demand behaviours from men that will turn them off sexually to that man in the long run."

A woman's prime directive is to get the seed of an Alpha male. Then convert that man into a beta. This is where the female fantasy of changing / taming / fixing a bad boy comes from. The high rates of single motherhood shows how often this strategy fails. In which case the woman finds an actual beta male or relies on the state to support her.

Every man who has been in a relationship will experience betaization to some degree. In the initial stages of a relationship the woman will make demands for exclusivity, to meet his family and to move in together.

The man complies with these demands only to find only temporary improvement in his relationship. No man has ever got more frequent / more intense sex after moving in with his girlfriend.

As the relationship progresses the woman will start complaining about things that never bothered her when they were casually dating. Such as leaving the toilet seat up, not liking one of his friends or the fact that he likes to go fishing on Sunday afternoon.

She complains about the very things she found exciting about him when they first met. Such as him being a singer in a local band and riding a big Harley Davidson. She now wants him to quit the band, sell his motorbike and get something more "appropriate".

The woman's demands will usually be accompanied by nagging, the silent treatment and the use of sex as a bargaining tool. Again she did no such thing in the early stages of the relationship and probably innated a lot of the sex herself.

Each time the man complies with her demands she is temporarily happy only to later issue more demands. The badass Alpha male eventually becomes a submissive beta after dozens of individual demands over many years. Paradoxically she turns her man into the type of person she would never have dated initially. At this point she is (often secretly) despised by him and the odds of divorce, cheating or dead bedroom skyrocket.

Betaization is a part of a woman's hardwired biology and not done from a position of malice or even conscious awareness. The only way to counteract this is to be aware of it and act accordingly. Ignore a woman's demands for beta male behaviour and continue with the Alpha male behaviour that attracted her to you in the first place. Every bitchy demanding woman is the end result of a man who continually wouldn't say no.

Just as women get turned off by men who comply with all their demands the opposite is also true. It's nothing unusual to hear a woman complaining about how her man won't take her on proper dates, meet his family or how he spends too much time in the pub with his friends. Yet the woman will continue to date him often for years when she could easily replace him with a man who would do all those things for her.

Avoiding betaization is the foundation of relationship game.